What is the next step to get an ex back after you give them space?
Friday, March 12th, 2010 at
5:31 pm
He’s not the kind of guy to come back because he’s jealous. If he gets too jealous he’ll give up. He also isn’t much of the guy to make the first move or initiate anything.
So how much space and how much time do i give him? What do i do after that?
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I think that if he wants you back then go back but you can’t make someone like you honey xx Move on xx
did he dump you because he is jealous……if he did, then it’s a hopeless case to try getting him back
If you love something set it free. I
f it comes back to you, it’s yours.
If it doesn’t, it never was.
If he doesn’t come back, he really isn’t that into you ^^ And giving him space shouldn’t have to make him jealous. Don’t fool around with other guys.
omg! it sounds like my EX….
I realized that guys like this have to come back on their own. It seems like nothing we can do can make them realize or come back…its like they need to realize it for themselves. I feel like crap about my situation b/c i feel like im placed on the backburner…i hope yours isnt as bad. But, give him time. Have you tried no contact??? That sometimes does the trick…
goodluck
You have to think about what broke you up in the first place. Usually the same things break you up again. It’s very hard but sometimes you gotta let go and wait for someone who wants what you want and is fully committed to you and the relationship. If you think you can salvage this sure call him up and talk it out. But if it reverts back to the same business, you gotta move on because sometimes the only way to break the cycle is to stop repeating it. Good luck!
Well, that sometimes happen in life time. You might wanna hang out just as friends for a while and then take it to the next level and see if he will take you back but to become friends with him you hav to do things like work on an assignment together at school or just ask him if he wants to come to a party your having things like that ya know?
welll honestly he still sounds like a little boy
he should be able to deal with issues such as jelousy i mean itsa not like you dont get jelouse too.
if you really like him you should discuss the situation with him. but wait after awhile but not too long so that he or you may forget because it will always come back again.
talk first about how he feels and what bothers him the most then share how you feel. but be relaxed and calm with him remember males tend too be diffrent than us ladies…… try to understand how he feels and do not what so ever be demanding or think that you are always right this will just lead to more disagrements and arguments. and take time to sympothize with him be open minded
Seriously, don’t date another guy but spend a lot of time with another guy so when the first comes to get you, you haven’t forgot about him and haven’t dated anyone else either. There will only be slight jealousy issues until you explain. Enough to get him back no enough to drive him away. If he asks about your status ask him why he wants to know and don’t tell him until he lets you know why he wants to know or until you feel like he’s ready to do something about it.
Don’t be too hard on him when he is ready but don’t make it easy either.
usually a week or two is good but it really depends on the relationship. for some couples even a month would be better.
next you need to learn how to attract them again and prove that you can change for them, etc. read this article on the subject:
http://ezinearticles.com/?How-To-Get-Your-Ex-Back—Dont-Make-the-Mistakes-90%-of-People-Make!&id=2718454
You definitely cant make him jealous if he will just give up. If you want to stir him a little to get him to start making more effort to chase you I will tell you what I did. This may seem odd but when my wife left me I was devastated. My better half was gone. I went to psychics and then I tried casting several love spells. Nothing was working and I was growing into a deeper depression by the day. Then I read about a witch in the paper who helped some guy win the lottery. I immediately contacted her and she did a return lover spell for me. It actually worked and my wife came back shortly after that. My world was restored and we are back together and happy. If you really want this guy back then I would recommend going to the same witch that I did. I used http://www.witchcraft-magic-spells.com